Tuesday, December 23, 2008

When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Lemonade

Well, this isn't like Christmases past and I hope it isn't like Christmases future. My oldest son is serving overseas and now, because of weather, my daughter isn't coming home for Christmas. It was a bit shocking at first and I have to admit that I was on the verge of tears for a portion of the afternoon. Then, as mothers would have it, motherhood kicked in and went to work. You see our Christmas traditions won't take place - no Christmas Eve movie, trip to Waffle House, no one to open gifts from Santa, no pigs-in-a-blanket, no lobster (yes, we eat lobster on Christmas) AND missing children. None of this means there won't be Christmas - it just won't be like any Christmas we have ever celebrated. My middle son will be here trying to lift our spirits, thank goodness! SO, we sent Mimi money for her own feast, movies and a good greasy spoon outing in Portland. She even called my sister to get her traditional Beer Cheese Soup recipe to make it feel like home. My husband and I rounded up her packages and gifts and took everything to the airport Fedex office for priority overnight delivery. My oldest son received his gift package three days ago, and combined with the Atlanta Falcons win, he will make it through the day in Iraq. Meanwhile I will go to Christmas Eve Mass, enjoy the pageant and instead of lobster we will enjoy comfort food - lasagna from our favorite Italian restaurant.

We have decided to have a family gathering in the spring when we can try once again to assemble as a family but in the meantime we are making the most of our lemons and enjoying the blessings of the season. By then we can enjoy some lemonade on the front porch!


  1. Tears, tears, tears. It's been that way all day. The blues are setting in a bit. Sleep deprivation will do that, not to mention horomones! Reading posts from people who won't be with their families just tears me apart inside. I was wondering if your son would be home for the holidays...I was just telling Cub's daddy that snow is hitting hard and that many people are not able to travel home to their families because of it,too. You and your husband are such good parents. Your children are so blessed. Sounds like the day is planned and you will enjoy it, even though it will be different than others. All of those traditions sounds so lovely...especially the lobster! (and the waffle house!)
    Peace and blessings to you and your beautiful family.
    I love that photo!

  2. Cheryl, It is Christmas Day in Portland and it feels like no Christmas i ever spent before: away from my children and grandchildren, and even from friends since I am snowbound. Sad? yes. But it made me appreciate the 69 preceding Christmases all the more, and the concern and care of neighbors reminds me how fortunate i am to have such lovely people living all around me.
    I hope your time in Lebanon is filled with warmth and good times. See you in January!