Sunday, January 25, 2015

A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Courthouse

I love weddings don't get me wrong.  I love being able to go to the wedding celebrations of others.  I love all the dressing up, flowers, different types of religious services, music, pew markers and all the beautiful details that families put into planning weddings.  But growing up I never really imagined myself as a bride nor did I want to put myself through the stress of all the planning and I especially didn't want to have all eyes on me walking down the aisle.  A beautiful wedding dress, yes.  A big ceremony, no.

So when my husband asked me to marry him we were really happy about the idea of just eloping.  All of his family was in Lebanon so they wouldn't be present for the ceremony.  When my husband first moved to the U.S. he'd lived in Las Vegas and I really liked the idea of one of those Las Vegas wedding chapels (of course I'd never actually been there but I'd seen them on tv).  Well I don't have to tell you that I mentioned the idea to my mother and first of all she wasn't too excited about me getting married.  But when I mentioned eloping, well that sent her over the edge.  She didn't speak to me for about two weeks but then she called with a great idea - she would put together a very small wedding at her house, my dad agreed to build a small gazebo and would also officiate the ceremony (he was an ordained Baptist minister) so I would be able to have the small wedding at home that I'd been hoping for.

We'd set a wedding date but moved it by a few weeks to accommodate the plan.   My dad (and mom) were both still working full-time but my dad would get busy at night designing the structure, laying the concrete working in the dark to build the gazebo.  I had been shopping for a dress but there was nothing in my size on the racks so I scrambled to find a pattern and fabric.  Meanwhile invitations had to go out (we didn't have time to get them back from the printer) so I wrote out each invitation by hand.  Did I mention that I was a school teacher making less than $7000 at the time so I was on a shoestring budget? My mother had a connection to the floral wholesaler so I was able to get an amazing amount of flowers for just $200.  And I was thrilled when my sister-in-law and her girlfriend offered to help with all the flower arrangements, boutonniere and bouquets.  A family friend agreed to make our wedding cake as a gift and it was beautiful. A local funeral home loaned chairs, tables and table clothes for the reception.  Family friends offered to help with music, photography and more.

The week of the wedding, no one slept.  We were all working by day and by night trying to finish various wedding details but my poor dad was still getting the roof completed, the gazebo painted and roses planted by the day of the wedding.  The night before the wedding my dad, mom and sister were up working on a lot of unfinished details and then to make matters worse, it stormed.  The rain cleared mid-morning so we scrambled to get everything set up in time for the wedding. We were exhausted.

Fast forward to just a few weeks ago.  My mom was cleaning out a bookcase and called me to say she'd found something very surprising.  It appears that after my wedding my dad was supposed to have completed and signed our marriage license and then sent it back to the county courthouse.  It seems that in his exhausted state, he put the paperwork in a safe place and forgot to send the paperwork meaning my wedding was never officially filed with the county.

My kids have had a lot fun giving me a very hard time and at this point I'm not sure that a certificate really matters.  My dad loved a good laugh and this one would have had him laughing for sure. 

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Listerine ...Really?

This time of year my feet always need extra attention because of dry cracking heels and no matter what I do, it never seems to remedy the problem.  


When I was in India I found a very interesting handmade pottery pumice that has been wonderful to help with foot maintenance.  Yes, that handmade clay item is an amazing pumice (the flowers are just to make the photos a bit more decorative).  It might not be pretty but it really helps.

Tonight I read that soaking your feet in Listerine works wonders.  Have you tried this remedy?  I'm all for easy home remedies and if you've tried this one I would love to hear about your results.

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Today We Walk #JeSuisCharlie #Atlanta

Today I'm very proud to join with the faculty, staff and members of the board of the Alliance Française d'Atlanta as we walk together silently to show our support for the victims of the massacres and their families.  One of our board members, Maria Saporta, has provided details on the Atlanta walk on her publication website. Please join us if you live in the Atlanta area.  

My grandgirls were extremely lucky to have been able to spend a few years living in Europe and during their years they made several trips to Paris. 
 If you ask my youngest granddaughter to tell you about her favorite vacation spot she will quickly tell you about Paris.  She loves it. And my guess is that most of you reading this blog who've had the chance to visit the city feel much the same.  
This afternoon I will be walking as an ambassador for AF and I will also be walking for my granddaughter.  Peace, love, tolerance and kindness.  Let's not just share it, let's stand up for it. 

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Happy New Year. Let's Travel!


We are back from the holidays and what a special holiday celebration we celebrated.  Most of our family traveled to Portland, Oregon to spend the New Year with my daughter and we had such a wonderful time with 5 days of sunshine and wonderful memories.  We didn't have much time for quiet contemplation or reflection to be able to make many resolutions but on the flight back home I did decide on one thing - before one vacation ends, start making plans for the next vacation!  And I think this is one resolution I won't have any trouble adhering to and in fact  I've got one trip exciting trip booked and another trip idea simmering in head!
2014 was a wonderful year, hard, but wonderful.  My son and his family moved to Georgia after living in Europe for 4 years.  It has been life-changing to have my granddaughters just two hours away.  During the past year I faced new challenges in being able to juggle all that needed to be done at any given time but I came out at the end of the year having learned and grown in the process. The juggling challenges resulted in lots of personal and professional growth.  
The most exciting part of my year was travel. Being able to see the Taj Mahal, tour Rajasthan, visit San Miguel and the south of France was significant.  My travel bucket list is long and I was thrilled to be able to fit these trips into a really busy year and I'm looking forward to more exciting adventures in the new year.  

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Make a Joyful Noise at the High Museum

Yesterday I headed over to the High Museum to see Cezanne and the Modern Masterpieces exhibit on my lunch hour (not enough time, really) so that I could see the exhibit before it ends. We are so lucky to have such a wonderful museum here in Atlanta and I'm even luckier that my office is just a block away.  The exhibit was fantastic and I have to say that I really loved seeing the work of Cezanne, Van Gogh, Manet, Toulouse-Lautrec and others displayed so close together.  It was really interesting to be able to go back and forth between the various works to look at the differences in brush strokes, colors and techniques.  



But the biggest surprise for me was the Make a Joyful Noise exhibit. I didn't know anything about the exhibit and it was truly a joy to hear the music and see these incredible music manuscripts and marble panels.  I can't imagine how long it must have taken to create the massive manuscripts.  The posting from the exhibit explained that the books were made large so they could be held up for church-goers to be able to read the music but when not in use they were to be part of the magnificence of the renaissance church. 



The exhibition leaves Atlanta on January 11 so enjoy it while you can. 

Saturday, December 13, 2014

Christmas With the First Lady of Georgia

Today we had such a special morning.

Each year the Georgia Governor's Mansion is decorated for the holidays and open for tours and this year the theme of the Governor's Mansion Christmas is "With a Servant's Heart." The house and Christmas trees in the house are focused on celebrating service and volunteerism. Now if you know anything about me, you know this struck a chord with me.  Each of the rooms on the tour were decorated with a theme and focused on topics such as health, human services, the arts, literacy, the environment, wild life and of course, United Way was featured front and center.  It was because of United Way that I received an invitation to come to the Governor's Mansion for a closed tour along visit a with the First Lady.  Wow, what a special way to celebrate the season.


I just loved these rockers that seemed to be waiting for the Governor and the First Lady to take some time to sit and simply enjoy the day.  

While I was posing for a photo with the First Lady I didn't realize at first that the Governor had joined his wife and was standing right behind me.  Thank goodness my son said something!  It was quite a surprise and yet such an honor to be in such good company early on a Saturday morning. We are so lucky to have such good people in state leadership.  I was both honored and humbled to have been invited for this special tour and even happier that my family was included to be a part of the event.
While touring the house there were so many details to be enjoyed.  Everywhere you looked there were bits of Georgia history, culture or environment and there seemed to be a story behind nearly every little detail.  The china used in the dining room tablescape was hand-painted and every piece was different, representing different Georgia wildflowers.  The silver pieces in the dining room too represented so many facets of Georgia and was I understood that many of the pieces had once been on a ship by the name of Georgia.  



But the real focus throughout the house was volunteering. (Yay for volunteering!)



And be still my heart when anything to do with ballet is in the room. Don't you love these tree "skirts"?





And then there were simply moments of Georgia pure and simple. 


Yes, that is a copy of Gone With the Wind. 


I love the dried hydrangeas used here.



Having been a librarian for many years it was great to see the Library Association and a focus on literacy!
Merry Christmas from Georgia!

Sunday, December 7, 2014

It Felt Like National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation! Win a Starbuck's Gift Card

This time of year many of the movie classics come to mind and one that always surfaces at some point in the season is that zany Christmas movie with the Griswolds.   I recently felt like I was living one of the Griswold family moments on a trip to Mexico.  I'll tell you the story and when you get to the end, please leave a comment letting me know what you would have done if you'd been in my shoes. My son who made the journey with me will be the judge of the best response. One lucky winner will be selected to receive a $10 Starbuck's gift card. Oh yes, AND YOU COULD WIN STARBUCKS FOR LIFE!  Be sure to read about the Starbucks giveaway.

Just before Thanksgiving my son and I traveled to Mexico to visit San Miguel de Allende and as we made our travel plans we realized we would be in Mexico at the same time the Monarch butterflies arrived from their winter migration.  Both of us were so excited to be able to visit the Mexican forest to see the butterflies.  We tried to book a tour beforehand but ran into some language barriers and decided that we could take care of setting up our tour as soon as we arrived.

On our first morning in SM we woke up really early (too early) and walked to the town center. Nothing much was opened accept this beautiful coffee shop known for some of the best churros in town. The cafe is owned by Margarita Gralia and the shop is always packed. In fact she came in for a meeting while we were there.
We finished an early breakfast and set out to find a tour company and as luck would have it there was a tour company just a few doors down.  I was even more excited when I realized the woman in the shop spoke English so no language barriers - booking should be easy. We were told that our guide would pick us up at our hotel at 7:00 the next morning and she further explained that we would be back home by 7:00 in the evening.  Great. So off we went to enjoy our day.
The next morning we were standing outside our hotel at 6:45 a.m. having had no coffee but so excited to make the journey to see the butterflies.  We waited, and waited, an by 7:15, I called the guide.  It sounded as if I woke him up but he closed with, I'll be there by 7:30.  With coffee on my mind I called him back and asked him to pick us up at the local Starbucks which would be open at 7:30.  (I'm one of those people who functions much better after having my morning coffee). Starbucks opened promptly, I got my tall dark and by then it was about 7:40. Suddenly a nice-looking guy was in my space saying "are you waiting for a guide?"  This guy quickly let me know our guide had arrived.  My son and I walked out of the Starbucks AND "what to my wondering eyes should appear but a..." BRIGHT ORANGE 1977 VOLKSWAGON BUS with a driver, 2 small children, a man asleep in the floor of the bus and the slick nice-looking guy.  Could this be right?  I couldn't think fast enough to decide whether to get in the bus or skip the butterflies and try to fight the bank charges to get my money back.  Would this old vehicle be able to make the trip? Oh and let me add the bus had been customized so we were missing some seating to make way for the cabinet & sink - yes a little sink!  I told my son to get in the front seat and everyone cleared a path for me to have a seat in the back seat.  All the while I'm thinking to myself this guy must be dropping his family off somewhere.  But no, the guide announced that we were on our way to pick up the English-speaking woman from the tour office.  Meanwhile the guy asleep in the van obviously had a rough night the evening before and remained passed out, oblivious to the long bumpy drive on cobblestone streets as we make our next pickup.  Have you ever been around people who've had too much to drink?  The bus reeked.

We arrived at the woman's apartment and she came out wearing a long flowing flowered skirt that appeared to be a few decades old, sporting a pair of Birkenstocks, loaded down with homemade granola bars. She got in the bus and somehow we managed to make room for one more person.  Surprise!  Everyone in the van would be making the trip to see the Monarchs.

So off we went and once we were on the highway things were fine for a while. Someone decided we needed to have some music so the driver popped in some mariachi music mixed with sappy tunes from the 80s. It was then we learned that the guy who was sleeping in the floor plays in a mariachi band and had been playing all night. The two little boys in the back of the bus belonged to the guide and were out of school for a school holiday which is how they ended up on the tour.  The hippie woman was Canadian and had been living in Saskatchewan working with tribal women victims of domestic violence.  She told us that woke up one day a few months ago with an urge to move to San Miguel so she bought the VW bus and drove by herself to SM and planned to live in her bus and figured she could learn to speak Spanish once she got settled. I've never met someone who just picks someplace on the map and moves there.  The slick, nice-looking guy gave no clues about himself nor did the tour guide but truthfully, I was fine with not knowing too much about them.

We drove for about 2 hours before stopping in a small town at what looked to be a market and we were told that we were stopping for breakfast. We marched past the long line of women waiting for milk vouchers, past the vendors selling all kinds of junk, past the open-air butcher, veggie stand, etc. and walked up to a counter and the guide ordered breakfast for all of us. We were served up a couple of tortillas with meat and a bowl of soup.  I was genuinely hungry by this time so I didn't ask too many questions.  Also, I was a bit concerned about the roadside dining and risking Montezuma's revenge but was I trying to be brave.
We spent some time waiting for the two guys in our group.  We were told they needed to go take showers and to myself I'm thinking that's a good thing because of the bad smells in the van.  So while we waited I walked around and ran into the sweet potato lady.
We got in the van and drove for another hour or so and this time ended up taking a bathroom break in the cutest town ever and guess what - you'll find some of Santa's workshop in this village!  The town is Tlalpujahau and we learned some very interesting facts about where we were. Besides being a place where Christmas ornaments are made, Michoacán just happens to be the kidnapping capital of Mexico! Shouldn't someone have mentioned this to us before we made this trip? 


Can you see our bus on the right?
I was so distracted by all the Christmas joy that I didn't notice until we were back on the road that the guy I nicknamed "sleeping beauty" was now up and sipping  drinking TEQUILA!  He'd packed him up a little cooler and was working on his hangover.  

At this point we are just a short distance from the butterfly reserve and I was totally focused on getting there and making the trip worthwhile.  It would have been nice to have gotten information about the area we were in but the guide didn't seem to want to share much information though he was a very good driver.
I loved the farmer wearing the cowboy hat.  He truly loves the land and all of God's beautiful world.  Not pictured - the hippie woman - she went to put on warm clothes.

Sleeping Beauty - in this photo this guy had enjoyed several beverage refills and has filled his pockets with magic mushrooms!




Eventually, we made it.  It was beautiful and one of the farmers who owns the land served as our guide.  To him the land is sacred and he earned my respect as he took us up the mountain, guiding us through some gorgeous woodlands pointing out native lupines, salvia, thistle and orchids all in bloom before we reached the butterfly area. Just imagine thousands of butterflies.  The day was overcast so the butterflies were not as active as I'd hoped but you could still see them clustered on tree trunks and we also spotted hummingbirds too.  It was breathtaking.  The farmer told us that he is 65 years old and he described the decreasing number of butterflies arriving each year by showing us how much of the forest they used to inhabit compared to these days adding that we must do something to save our environment.  

As we began our journey down the mountain "sleeping beauty" stopped to point out some very unique mushrooms. When we got in the van to make our journey home he couldn't quit laughing about what was in his pocket. He'd loaded his pockets with magic mushrooms!  

It started raining on the drive home so it took us nearly 5 hours to make the trip. It was the longest 5 hours of my life but I was so happy we survived. There are so many more small details I could share but lesson learned.  The next time I decide to book a tour, I will be checking references before booking. I try to be an adventurer but this went way beyond adventure in my book.

The next day we stopped in to BajioGo Tour &; Shuttle Company and the agency's staff was appalled at the price of our tour, the crazy vehicle they used, 15 hour drive, the fact that meals were not included in our ticket price and that we were exposed to some of the craziest and most unprofessional experiences. Just in case you decide to go to San Miguel (and you should, it's wonderful) be sure NOT to use the tour company services of AVENTURAS SOL Y LUNA SN MIGUEL!!!

Congratulations if you made it all the way to the end of the post and I hope you'll leave a comment letting me know what you would have done.  Happy trails!

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Bronnie Masefau and Mum

Over Thanksgiving holiday in 2010 my son and I made an amazing Christmas trip to New York.  One of our very first stops was Serendipity to enjoy one of those famous frozen hot chocolates.


While waiting on our dinner that night we struck up conversation with two very wonderful people - Bronnie Masefau and her Mum.  I posted about this chance meeting back in 2010.  From the moment we met I knew I'd met two very inspiring and incredible women, but more important, I'd met two people that are very important to me.

This week I was at the airport in Atlanta headed to NY for work and I can't tell you how overwhelmingly joyful I was when I saw a Facebook post where Bronnie shared that she and Mum were also headed to New York!!!

And so we met up again four years later, this time at Grand Central Station.
It was fabulous to see these two women again.  Do you know Bronnie?  If not you should!  She's an Australian designer with a focus on family-centered design.  She is powerfully inspiring with her message of authenticity, faith, family, passion and beauty.   I was so excited to learn that Bronnie is soon to release another new book!

From the moment I met these two women I knew there was a reason they were put in my path.  Our meeting was more than serendipitous.  I'm convinced there is a greater purpose for our meeting. Do you believe in miracles?  I do, and being able to meet up with these two was nothing short of a small miracle.  I feel so honored, amazed, honored, inspired and JOYFUL!  It's a powerful message - believe, be faithful and continue to follow your heart. Thank you Bronnie and Mum!  I can't wait to see you again and the next time we WILL meet up in Australia.  Meanwhile, I 'll follow your blog, read your newsletter and look for your next book!